Life was never easy so was my case when you reach marriageable age and don't find a life partner,pressure from parents and relatives makes ones life hell. I could have never thought of getting my life partner the way I got him.
Well it all starts from internet matrimony site. I happened to visit my parents for a weeks time and there comes the phone of a person who introduces himself and wishes to know more about me for marriage purpose. I had reached home the same day and was least interested to talk to this person but you know the pressure from parents, I had to speak to him that too politely...How are you? Am fine, thank you.
He did not match my criteria and I showed least interest in him. He kept on calling but never did I bother to answer nor did I call him back. It was only mails that hold us together for sometime and finally I agreed to be in touch with him and we became good friends.
Now here starts the story. We slowly started getting along well and things started moving. The marriage chapter was reopened and a hell lot of drama went on from parents side for horoscope matching. Do you believe in horoscope matching? Well ours never matched. We had gone deeper in our relationship and had started feeling for each other very strongly. Can you believe in a day we use to share about 80-100 short mails. Too much to believe, but yes we did.
I did understand that he is the kind of person I would like to share my life with. He did love me a lot and always supported me in my thick and thin. This lasted for about 11 months. Finally my parents agreed to meet him. He came down to my parents place and when my father first met him he was damn impressed by his simplicity and honesty. I too liked the same. Things were finalised and within 3 months we got married. Did I tell you.......we never met each other till he came to meet my parents.
Today we have a baby and we are living happily. So my story ends here...life begins though.
So guys believe it or not "Marriages are made in Heaven".
2 comments:
Hey Alpha...that was a real touching love story of yours.Hmm makes one believe in love.
Wish you n hubby n baby all
happiness in life.
Warm Regds
Nina
Alpha What you wrote is very beautiful, some what like a “love story in motion.” May God bless you and your beloved family.
Some times I wonder how beautiful marriage works even though Man and woman are totally different.
According to the New England Journal of Medicine, man thinks with “one side of the brain” and women thinks with “both sides of the brain.” Man sees only the part of everything; where as woman sees every intrinsic part of everything.
The institution of marriage can only by maintained by “sacrifices to each other” rather than emotions.
Many fail miserably in their marriage, since they are not ready for "mutual sacrifice" and are only interested in fulfilling their selfish desires.
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